Amid all of the construction going on around Beacon, which have been planned projects as part of Beacon’s Capital Project, speed “humps” just popped up on Wilkes Street. These minor traffic calming interventions were not as talked about as the new sidewalks and pipeline that came to Fishkill and Teller Avenues, but they do have significance here in Beacon, and seem to be slowing traffic on a kid-filled street.
Beacon’s City Administrator Chris White updated Beacon’s City Council during the September 3, 2024 meeting saying that the speed humps had been installed prior to school staring on September 4th.
Wilkes Street has a history of speed “bumps,” where the yellow bumps were set down during the Spring/Summer/Early Fall season, and lifted up for winter snow plow season. But they aren’t always put down each year, and from time to time, residents try to advocate for them to come back. Elsewhere in the city, if a speed bump is requested, it is not entertained. At least as far as the public City Council Meetings are concerned. Wilkes Street has been the exception for undefined reasons.
Elsewhere in the area at Memorial Park, speed bumps (as opposed to “humps”) were put down in similar fashion around the baseball and football fields. However, as ALBB has noted before, the laying down of these temporary speed bumps was inconsistent. They were not put down this 2024 year, or in 2021, for instance.
Last week, Beacon’s Highway Department could be seen on Wilkes Street near the skateboard park, crunching some pavement. At first, they dug trenches in the ground. A few days later, these speed “humps’ popped up as well as new yellow signs warning of the speed hump. Said one ALBB reader: “I for one liked the day before when they dug out the holes for the speed humps and cars had to come to a crawl to traverse them.”
Speed Bump: tends to be a sharper obstruction that is short - not as wide as the street. Usually reduces traffic to 5-10 mph but can more easily damage shocks. Usually are bad for snow plows.
Speed Hump: tends to be as wide as the road, are rounder, and more forgiving. Might be better for snow plows, but still awareness is needed when plowing over them.
Speed Lumps: similar to speed humps, but are broken in the middle to allow for the tires of emergency vehicles to pass through.
In conclusion, the permanent speed humps probably make former City Councilmember Terry Nelson satisfied, as he used to close his City Council Meeting Reports with: “don’t speed.”
On September 5, 2024, Beacon Police arrested Khyree Pratt, age 23 of Philadelphia, PA for the murder of Lionel Pittman in the Forrestal Heights apartment community near West Center Street (near the Beacon Recreation Center), on May 14, 2022, according to a press release issued by the Chief Thomas Figlia of the Beacon Police Department.
"Khyree is currently an inmate in a Federal Correction Institution out of state," according to the press release. He was transported to Beacon, NY on September 5th by the Beacon Police Department, "where he was processed on charges of Murder in the First Degree, and then transported to the Dutchess County Jail."
This is the second arrest in Lionel's murder. The first arrest was of Naije Perrette on June 11, 2024, who was charged with Second Degree murder, and arrested during a traffic stop in Beacon on Fishkill Avenue.
Said Chief Figlia in the press release regarding Khyree: [This arrest] represents yet another facet in the culmination of years of diligent work by members of the Beacon Police Department, the Dutchess County District Attorney's Office and other assisting agencies."
Chief Figlia sated that there are other elements of the investigation that are still ongoing, so no further information is being released at this time.
According to Patch.com, Khyree was arrested in June 2022 in Marple Township in Pennsylvania after Maple Township Police said that he led them on a chase on June 4, 2022. The media outlet reported: “According to police and court records, Khyree Hyneif Pratt, 21, of Philadelphia, has been charged with firearm crimes, fleeing or attempting to eluding police, drug possession, and other crimes.”
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The Beacon City School District Board of Education (BOE) has been debating the District’s cell phone policy for students, having experimented with a put-away-per-classroom policy last year. During the August 26th, 2024 BOE Meeting, the Board did pass the new cell phone policy which keeps phones with students during the school day, but directs students to put them into a pouch that looks like a hanging fabric shoe rack per classroom, leaving the teacher of that room to implement as is fitting for their room. Cell phones can be used during lunch and recess periods. Changes were also made to the Code of Conduct to address Sexual Harassment that can happen digitally, and an addition to the List of Consequences. These specifics can be found below in this article, which includes quotes from Beacon’s Superintendent, Principals of the Middle and High Schools, Board Members, and Parents.
WHAT’S HAPPENING
Parents, caregivers and other stakeholders have been vocalizing varying opinions on cell phones in schools, ranging from a full out full-day cell phone ban, to a classroom policy that allows kids to keep their phones throughout the day, and access them during designated periods. Governor Hochul has implied that she is also wants to set a state-wide policy which would override district policies, but that has not happened yet; only a “listening tour” for the Governor to hear feedback.
Beacon City School District Board Of Education Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 8/26/2024
At Beacon’s August 19, 2024 Board of Education Meeting, the Board did pass the first of a 2-step process to implement the new put-away-per-classroom cell phone policy for students, or “Pouch It” as ALBB is calling it. The new policy would require a change to the Code of Conduct, which requires 2 voting sessions to pass. The first voting session was passed on August 19th, and the second vote scheduled for August 26th also passed. This final vote required a Public Hearing to hear from the public, which did happen Monday night.
During the August 19th Board meeting, Dr. Landahl unveiled the proposed policy in a slide deck. The presentation included several aspects of the policy and how it will work. At its base, the proposed policy would work like this:
Elementary Schools:
(South Avenue, JV Forrestal, Glenham, Sargent) All electronic devices will be stored away all day in student backpacks.
Rombout Middle School
Students will put cell phones in designated spaces in each classroom. Dr. Landahl stated that these may be in hanging pouches, like fabric shoe racks, that are on back-order, scheduled to arrive a month or two into the school year. Teachers will implement their own methods with the pouches in the classroom. Kids will pick up their phones out of the pouches during each class change, to have them in the hallways, at lunch and recess.
Smart watches and ear buds will be put away on each student, but not into the pouches. Principal Soltish of Rombout Middle School told the Board of Education at the August 19, 2024 meeting that the smart watches and ear buds were not so much of an issue.
Beacon High School
Students will put cell phones into designated spaces per classroom using the pouches described above, and put earbuds away, similar to the Middle School Policy.
Parental Response To The New Cell Phone Policy
Some of the more vocal parents and caregivers vocalized support for a full-day ban on all cell phone use, stating mainly fear of addiction and harms caused by social media utilized on the phone. The Board indicated that stakeholders had also emailed in their opinions. The Board did not read those emails or indicate what they said during the last two Board meetings.
“A policy is a pretty blunt instrument especially, if it’s like a broad ban. I think there’s a lot more to think about in terms of this. Secondly, in terms of how kids respond to prohibitions or bans versus being educated or learning about developing group norms: if our goal is to develop a healthy relationship to technology, then there are a lot of curricula that are out there that have to do with setting group norms around phone use and giving kids some agency, and their parents some agency.”
— Greta Byrum, Parent
A working group called Beacon Parents for Phone Free Schools was formed by some parents. The group pushes for a full-day phone restriction. A handful of parents from that group spoke at the July 22th, August 19th and August 24th, 2024 meetings.
Catherine Buscemi Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 8/19/2024
During the August 19th meeting, Catherine Buscemi spoke to say she was part of that working group, and felt a classroom restriction was a step in the right direction, but stated specifics on what she wanted to see: "Problems are happening outside the classroom at lunch and recess in bathrooms and hallways where filming without consent and bullying are most rampant." She also stated her belief that a full-day ban removes the "burden of police from teachers."
Further focus was placed on removing distractions like "giving back the freedom from FOMO (fear of missing out) on something happening in social media, and the ability to "reconnect mentally and socially eyes-up interacting with real life around them without the distraction of counting down the minutes until they can get their phones out again." She advocated for schools to collectively ban the device to reduce stress from social media.
The Wappingers Central School District has not banned the phones full day, but has introduced the Yondr (a singular lockable personal pouch) to be used only when a student is disciplined multiple times and needs temporary, personalized enforcement).
Hana Ramat Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 8/26/2024
Hana Ramat, also part of the full-day ban group, stated during the August 24th meeting after the Board voted to pass the Classroom Pouch-It Policy: “The related changes to the student Code of Conduct are an improvement; however, not by nearly as much as we had hoped. I feel angry and disappointed that our new policy does not include a full day phone ban according to the mounting research our group has presented to the Board through comment numerous emails and our comprehensive deck. There is no known benefit to children to allow phone use at all during the school day. I do not seek to take away anything from our kids or other parents with a full-day ban. In fact, I kind of hate the language to ban it as it lands as a negative deduction. When in fact, I see it as a gift - one of the greatest gifts we can give our children right now - the gift of focus.”
Jean Huang Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 8/26/2024
Jean Huang, a past president of the JV Forrestal PTSO and current member of the Foundation for Beacon Schools, spoke on her own behalf not voicing opinions of those groups, to say that she was also a member of the full-day ban group. She had provided a deck to the Board. "We think that doing the full-day ban and especially with pouching would really be the best option. It's the way that so many districts local to us as well as across the state are going and we think that is going to be the most effective measure as any half measures. Where the kids are still allowed to have phones at recess and lunch will not really solve the problems of bullying and self-harm and all the horrible things that go along with social media and smartphone usage."
Greta Byrum Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 7/22/2024
Greta Byrum spoke as a lone supporter of in-school cell phone usage at the July 22nd meeting. Greta is an information professional for 15 years in the area of public interest technology and is a Principal for Broadband and Digital Equity at HR&A Advisors, working with broadband and digital equity and digital safety.
Greta said: "We should think a lot about he implications of the freedom of information and civil rights both through implementation of a policy that would remove or ban cell phones. Also in terms of what it would take to enforce something like that, including what kind of monitoring or surveillance would need to happen...Banning sources of information can be a bit of a slippery slope, and we could end up in a situation where we have to monitor what's on the bodies of our children."
Greta also spoke to education vs bans: "A policy is a pretty blunt instrument especially, if it's like a broad ban. I think there's a lot more to think about in terms of this. Secondly, in terms of how kids respond to prohibitions or bans versus being educated or learning about developing group norms: if our goal is to develop a healthy relationship to technology, then there are a lot of curricula that are out there that have to do with setting group norms around phone use and giving kids some agency, and their parents some agency.”
As a single parent, Greta represented, by saying: "It's important to me that I be able to reach my child during the days. A lot of times we have to figure out what's going on after school, or I will need to speak with my child about something that's happening. [Regarding] scary incidents, including school intruders, I would want to be able to be in contact with my child."
At a later meeting, Katie Hellmuth spoke support of in-school cell phone use at the August 24th meeting, saying: “It has been argued that social media is designed to be addictive. Yes. So is sugar. And food. And alcohol. And smoking. And TV watching. And sex. And water. And learning. Because we need all of those things. Except smoking cigarettes. But we don't full ban those things. We learn how to have them in moderation. We teach ourselves that. Some of us are better at it than others. Some of us are physically less capable of doing that because of how are bodies are made. We must be taught how to recognize our triggers, and how to move through those triggers into self-regulation.”
Regarding safety during school intruder incidents, Katie said: “When you are in an emergency, you are a team. You become warriors and victims at the same time. On my team, I want the little eyes and ears who know the school well. Who know where the other warriors and victims are. Who are exchanging ideas in case they are stuck and the official Plan of Authority isn't working. Because you always need a Plan B, C and D. Sometime made on the fly. Despite every expert's best intention and training.”
Teacher’s Involvement With The Classroom Free Phone Policy
Dr. Landahl at the August 26th meeting did indicate that teachers had varying opinions of how they wanted to handle cell phones. Some teachers, he said, supported phones in school, while others wanted restrictions.
Board member Eric Schetter, whose son is a teacher in the district, said at the August 26th meeting: “I think it's a vital piece to get input from the administrators; from the teachers and students. My son is a teacher [in the Beacon City School District] and he's kind of all over the place on this as well. So I hear quite a bit.”
The Newburgh Free Academy was stated as an example of a school that had gone phone-free with Yondr pouches (portable pouches that lock so that an individual cannot open it to use their phone).
Jessica Welch Eriksmoen Photo Credit Beacon City School District Board Of Education Meeting 8/19/2024
Jessica Welch Eriksmoen also spoke, stating that she wanted to "give our teachers the ability to say what happens in their room" and to support teachers to "get their jobs done because they are challenged as it is." She went on to cite the movie The Social Dilemma with a focus on how social media can allow ideas of self-harm to perpetuate.
Teachers and School Administrators Respond to Cell Phone Policy
Dr. Landahl asked the principals of the Middle and High Schools, Brian Soltish and Corey Dwyer respectively, to submit their comments and feedback to the new policy at the August 19th meeting.
Principal Dwyer explained that he had been working with teachers at the High School on this prior, implementing an experiment of a cell phone free classrooms with 20 teachers and found success with it. When asked by Board Member Kristan Flynn to expand, he stated: "At the High School, we had talked with our teachers and gotten feedback at the end of the 2022/2023 school year. Teachers had said 'You know, we'd like to think about what we can do about phones.' So we opened up the year last year by saying we want to try to reduce the amount of phone usage in class. I gave teachers basically the option of a shoe rack or having to just keep their phones in their backpacks. The teachers who chose to go with the shoe rack and who kind of stayed on top if it all year with specific examples saw more success with it. We didn't do a lot around enforcement or consistency, but the teachers that chose to keep up with it all year all had success with it.” Principal Dwyer stated that the genesis of the experiment wasn't a response from teachers to student behavior issues, but a desire to keep student's attention.
“Part of going through school is learning. You just hope that if a choice is made that’s not the best, that they learn from it, and that it’s not a high impact on someone else. Part of the main point in Mr. Gary’s speech is “‘Public and Permanent.’ He’s going to really hit on the taking of a picture and what that can do not only to you, but to the to a student. If you’re taking a picture of them and it’s just like you’re sending it to your group because you think it’s funny.”
— Brian Soltish, Principal Rombout Middle School
Principal Soltish confirmed that at the Middle School there was not a pouching experiment conducted because students had less issues with taking them out during class. Principal Soltish said: “Most teachers were pretty strict with not allowing cell phone use in the classroom. Obviously with the younger age student, it's a little easier to get that compliance." Later, he said: "My teachers are in favor of having a system in place where the phones are stored for the period.”
When Boardmember Semra Ercin asked Principal Soltish if the Middle School teachers favored keeping the phones away for the entire day vs managing them throughout the day through class changes, Principal Soltish emphasized the classroom-only preference, stating: “Teachers were in favor of collecting them at the start of the period and giving them back at the end of the period knowing that the responsibility would be on them, as opposed to having them removed for the entire day.”
Principal Dwyer agreed, speaking for the teachers at the High School. “I agree. I think the practicality of implementing, [for instance] the pouches...You know, there's some questions involved there and I think a lot of it would still probably fall on teachers to some degree. It may be asking the teacher to then kind of be on the front lines of enforcing something that might be more difficult to get students to buy into.”
“Most teachers were pretty strict with not allowing cell phone use in the classroom. Obviously with the younger age student, it’s a little easier to get that compliance...My teachers are in favor of having a system in place where the phones are stored for the period.”
— Principal Brian Soltish, Rombout Middle School
Dr. Landahl stated: "This is really founded in talking to our teachers because they are on the front lines of this. Brian Soltish and Corey both at their buildings have spent a lot of time with groups of teachers and leadership gathering input over the last several months about what they want to see in terms of this. I think we are talking about 130 teachers [and 1,400 students] between the two schools, so there's, like with anything, a wide range of opinions, but essentially, the bulk of feedback we've gotten from those teachers is they really want to start with a cell phone free classroom restriction policy. That would be in each class putting the phones away in a designated space that the students would be able to to get the phones at the end of class and move on to the next class."
After the Board voted to pass the Code of Conduct changes, which included the classroom pouching of the cell phones, Dr. Landahl reinforced: "We did then engage with teacher leadership in both buildings (High School and Middle School) in terms of crafting something. This is something that I think both Faculties and Administration felt unified behind, so teachers were involved and will be very involved obviously as we go.”
How The Board Responded To The Cell Phone Pouching Policy
As the Beacon Board of Education has been debating this issue for some time, opinions were expressed again the night of the August 19th meeting.
Boardmember Anthony White stated: “If the purpose of education is to prepare kids for post-secondary, whether that be a Career College, whatever that may be, and when you go into a job, they don't say 'Hey there's a cell phone ban' when you go to a college. It's trying to have them learn the responsibilities of how to do it, and you do that in a structured environment in school. You're educating kids how to use it appropriately. But then I also feel as a parent, I have 3 kids. One just graduated, one's into High School, and one's going into 6th grade. I put blocks on stuff. I block out the social media for the 6th grader all day. He only has only a 2hour window where he could even go on it. And then as he shows that he's able to deal with it, and monitor it as a parent, I'm doing that. I want the school to educate my kid, and if there's an issue with it, where I find it - and I'm fine with the policy as it's written and everything - but the internal struggle is: how are we preparing the kid for post-secondary when we are just taking it [the cell phone] away. You can't just take stuff away and say: 'Okay. Now you're going to go get it.'"
During the questioning of the principals, opportunities for digital literacy was raised by Boardmember Kristan Flynn, where the Assistant Superintendent of Curriculum and Student Support, Dr. Sagrario Rudecindo-O'Neill, was able to answer that digital literacy has been a part of student curriculum at all school levels, which includes presentations by experts in the field like a Mr. Gary. Kristan asked the principals if they felt the curriculum had been effective.
Principal Soltish answered: “Yeah. I think when you talk to the kids about digital citizenship, I think they get it. Do I think sometimes kids still make poor choices? Yes, absolutely. I think for the most part, our student body is very empathetic and and compassionate towards other kids. But I think from time to time, we don't always make the best choice. Part of going through school is learning. You just hope that if a choice is made that's not the best, that they learn from it, and that it's not a high impact on someone else. Part of the main point in Mr. Gary's speech is "‘Public and Permanent.’ He’s going to really hit on the taking of a picture and what that can do not only to you, but to the to a student. If you're taking a picture of them and it's just like you're sending it to your group because you think it's funny. So he's really going to do a lot of conversation around the damage, and what happens when you make that permanent digital footprint on the internet.”
Boardmember Christopher Lewine questioned the outside of school usage of phones, and if interacting with each other digitally versus of face to face: “I think we also need to teach kids to socialize with each other and not have their eyes down on their phones. Some of the advocacy we've heard is not just about kind of extreme fights or those kinds of things, or even just the anxiety that someone might be taking a picture of you. If everyone's on their phones at lunch, that sort of that anxiety can be very present. Even if it's not actually happening. I'm also kind of okay with the current policy as a step, but I'm very curious about hearing more about how kids are using phones outside of the classroom because I don't think that's as much a focus of this, and as we figure out what the next step is or isn't with education or other restrictions, it's not just a classroom attention but to me, it's that anxiety that we're feeling if everyone is just on their phones all the time outside of class.
"We're teaching the digital citizenship, but these are addictive devices with addictive properties that even as adults we struggle to to monitor. So is it fair to ask kids to make good choices in that context. I would just love to hear more about how how the in between class time is going with phone usage, and if this assembly and the education if we see decreases in number of kids on their phone and more kind of interacting socially in a human way, because if we don't, I'd be curious what it would take to help kids engage with each other here in the human kind of world and not always have the eyes down on the phone and in the social or in between times."
Boardmember Anthony countered that identification of what face to face interaction was acceptable by talking about the preference that his own 6th grader has with staying in the library to watch different specialized shows in his quest to become a sports announcer.
Boardmember Alena Kush wanted to hear from the students through data collected during the new policy. She asked Dr. Landahl: “When you do the data, can you do it also not just pulling those that got any type of discipline or got called out, but also track those that got called out maybe earlier, and then didn't get called out at all, later on in semester, and then the academic year. And then bring those students back in and say 'Well what happened. Was it a one-off that you got sent here?’
“Because you can manipulate data, I would be curious to see for the student who got caught maybe one or two times in like, September, and then maybe get them in January February. Just kind of meet up with them and say: 'Hey how's it going...You haven't been down here for pulling the phones out. How is it going?' And then maybe pull kids who haven't got called at all to see what's their perspective.
"One of the research [points] you said from talking to a Newburgh kid was like they kind of didn't want the phone and then when it was actually banned they were like: 'Oh, I don't really want it banned,' and then they kind of talked to them at the end of the year and it was like: 'It's actually helpful.' So we're going to pull data. We can pull it at different points with different students. And then I think when we sit here again, or we have to change something, we just have a well-rounded picture right of why we're making the change."
Changes In Code of Conduct As It Relates To Cell Phones
Dr. Landahl read the changes made to the Code of Conduct, which can be found in this document, highlighted in yellow. Not related to cell phone was a change to the Dress Code, which is the exclusion of sunglasses: “Sunglasses cannot be worn in school.”
As for cell phones, Dr. Landahl stated that there was an addition to Level II of the Infractions: "Refusal to put cell phone in designated areas directed by School Staff."
He explained: "We added a little bit of language for our Sexual Harassment that happens in school, connecting it with our policy. We added language, [and] I'll read the sentence: 'Creating or disseminating images or fake images of other students or staff that are vulgar, profane, obscene, harassing, threatening, or discriminatory.'"
Lastly, he addressed one addition to the List of Consequences: “The Consequence List has worked well for us. We've had the code for 5 years now. We added 'Removal of cell phone privileges.' Mr. Soltish and Mr. Dwyer spoke about that pretty extensively at the last meeting in terms of what that would be, but just to be clear: Parents would obviously be a part of this process, but it would be a student having to turn their phone into like to the Assistant Principal for a day, for 3 days, for 5 days. It would not be us holding the phone except during the school day. It wouldn't be us holding the phone at night or anything like that. The phone would be returned to the student at the end of the school day."
Student schedules and teacher assignments were dropped today by the Beacon City School District, and many kids were excited to receive the news. Those kids who have phones were already trying to log into the Portal and were checking Stories on social media of their friends to get the latest release.
When the schedule announcement went out, the text informed caregivers that the Parent Portal app was down, with a fix coming. Undeterred for what is one of the most anticipated days of the end of summer, students took to texting each other for alternative ways of finding the information, if they couldn’t see it in the Parent Portal App.
“Go to Safari!!” the kids texted to each other. The kids proved themselves resilient in the face of technology trouble and Mercury in Retrograde. Some went to the Safari browser on their phones to log in to the Parent Portal old style (https://powerschool.beaconk12.org/public/home.html).
In the time of “Pouch It” - ALBB’s term for the new partial ban on cell phones from the district that is very likely being voted in on Monday August 26th - the kids prove why it is important that they stay connected to each other - even if during a school day. Beacon Kids are Tech Savvy and Resilient! 📲📱🤳🏽
The Beacon Back 2 School Block Party from I Am Beacon is this Saturday, August 24, 2024 from 12-3pm. It is a time for excitement as kids and their caregivers get ready to go back to school. With the school schedules released on Friday, kids are abuzz with what classes they have when, and with whom. The Beacon Back 2 School Block Party is a great free way to connect with new and old friends outside.
Look for the Girl Scouts Girl Scouts Heart of the Hudson, Cub Scouts Pack 1, Fl!p It 4 Life, Beacon Girls Soccer Booster Club, A Little Beacon Blog, Beacon Hood Chicken, City of Beacon Police Department, A-Sicka Foundation, The Beacon Players, Beacon City School District PTO Collaborative, Howland Chamber Music Circle, Hudson Valley Concierge Service, Safe Haven Animal Shelter & Wildlife Center, Highlands Current, NAMI- Mid-Hudson, Howland Library, UnitedHealthcare Community Plan, Dutchess County Commission on Human Rights, NY Project Hope and more.
A Little Beacon Blog will be popping up for our Face Painting table! See you there!
Notable in the Press Release are the words “the female subject eventually admitted that the male,” which indicates that the girlfriend was hesitant to name her boyfriend as the stabber. The word “admitted” also carries associations of wrong-doing with it, which is a heavy implication for a victim to carry as they process what happened. A different word choice may have been better suited.
The Press Release Republished In Full:
“On August 17th, 2024 (a Saturday), Beacon Police responded to 31 Eliza Street for a call of a female who had been stabbed. Upon arrival, officers found a male and female subject, both later identified as being 16 years old. The female subject was bleeding from what appeared to be a stab wound to her leg. Officers attempted to detain the male subject who immediately resisted arrest and struck one of the officers in the face before being subdued.
“Upon investigation, the female subject eventually admitted that the male, who was her boyfriend, was the one who had stabbed her. Furthermore, a witness stated that the two had been involved in a physical altercation and video from inside the building showed the female cowering when the male approached her just before officers arrived.
“The male subject was charged with two counts of Assault in the Second Degree (D-Felonies), one count of Resisting Arrest (A-Misdemeanor) and one count of Criminal Possession of a Weapon in the Fourth Degree (A-Misdemeanor). He was arraigned and transported to a secure facility. The female subject was transported to the hospital by ambulance where she was treated for her injuries. The names of both subjects have been withheld due to their age.
“If you or someone you know is in need of immediate assistance with domestic violence, please call the Beacon Police Department at 845-831-4111. Additional resources for victims and their families can be found locally through the Family Services www.familyservicesny.org.”
From a press release issued by the Beacon Casefire Coalition:
Please join the Beacon Ceasefire Coalition for 2 events this weekend on Saturday (Kingston) and Sunday (Woodstock) as part of the Not Another Bomb campaign. Not Another Bomb is a national initiative started by the Uncommitted Movement to rally across the country for an arms embargo on Israel.
From the mission statement on the Not Another Bomb petition page: “We know that in order to achieve a permanent ceasefire in Gaza, the U.S. must stop arming Israel’s war and occupation against Palestinians. That’s why we are calling for an immediate embargo on US arms to Israel. Join us in calling on presidential candidate Kamala Harris to distance herself from Biden’s disastrous policy of arming Israel’s ongoing genocide and occupation in Palestine. Not another bomb!”
This weekend's actions take place just before the Democratic National Convention (DNC), as a way to demand that our politicians in the current and upcoming administrations end the U.S.'s unlimited funding and arming of Israel's violent assault on Palestinians.
The cell phone policy for students in the classroom in the Beacon City School District.will be discussed at the Board of Education Meeting on Monday, August 19th, for a possible vote the following Monday on August 26th, Superintendent Landahl told district families via email this week.
“We have been working on strengthening our school/classroom cell phone policy, especially for middle and high school with the goal of enhancing our classroom learning environments,” Dr. Landahl wrote. “I will share the proposed policy changes at the Board of Education meeting on Monday, August 19th for a possible adoption at the Board of Education meeting on August 26th. Smartphones are a challenge for most of us, including me as an individual and a dad, and we also hope to share more this year with families and students about best practices for smartphone and social media use.”
Parents, caregivers and students have been debating a change in the cell phone policy amongst themselves in social media and in real life. People are encouraged to attend the meeting should they wish to voice their opinion during the Public Comment portion of the meeting.
When Kamala was announced as the candidate replacing Biden, Lisa Jessup, Chair of the Beacon Democrats said via Instagram: "Thank you, Joe Biden, for your leadership and service, and being the most effective and positively consequential President of our lifetime." To which a Beacon resident, Call.Me.Ella.Mar, responded: "Are we talking about the same president? Underwhelmed, once again, by our local dems."
The Beacon Democrats may be gearing up to host voter registration events around this city/town. The question is, at those events, and in their social media, will Beacon Democrats denounce the newest $20 Billion expenditure that the Biden/Kamala administration has authorized to Israel to continue bombing Palestine? According to Al Jazeera: “The Biden administration has approved sending $20B worth of arms to Israel, even as the US publicly calls for restraint in the war on Gaza. Israel has used advanced weaponry to obliterate most of Gaza’s infrastructure and kill tens of thousands of Palestinians.”
As Democrats demand more affordable health care for all, and continued Pre-K for all, would this money not be better spent on those issues? As Democrats call for gun control, why would sending arms that obliterate Palestinian citizens make sense?
Pictured here is a video of a rescue team “cutting into the skin, not out of choice, but necessity, trying to ‘save'' what’s left of a bombed body, dangling from the ruins of a once-safe home.”
Aren’t Beacon Democrats advocates for affordable and safe homes? Yet Israel plans to expand their territory into Palestine, as explained and illustrated in this Washington Post article, “Israel Is Redrawing the West Bank, Cutting Into A Prospective Palestinian State” using American money earmarked for Israel’s “self defense?”
After the hospital, I put myself back into the box. To recover. From the Diverticulitis. I was wild. Unleashed. Untamed. Bucking bronco. “Why is she doing this to herself?” they asked.
“Because why aren’t you?” she answered.
I can’t go back into the box. So. Back to unfinished business.
Editorial Note: 🇵🇸 Hello. If you’re new here to A Little Beacon Blog, you should know that we post about Palestine. In addition to the ✨good and troubling things happening in Beacon. If you’re only watching the regular news, like CNN, MSNBC, FOX News, New York Times, Washington Post, then you may not know all of the details of what’s been going on, and how it impacts your life as an American citizen. Smaller brands like this one, and especially this one since we are a media outlet, have taken it upon ourselves to spread the word.
The Palestinian poet, Mosab Abutoha, who was taken by Israeli military IDF while he was waiting in line with his family to evacuate Gaza in December 2023 and wrote about his experience in the New Yorker, reported this:
August 8, 2024: USA urges the resumption of negotiations to reach a ceasefire.
Keep in mind, on July 31, 2024, Israel assassinated Hamas’ political chief and lead ceasefire negotiator, Ismail Haniyeh, after having killed 3 of his children, his grandchildren, and at least 60 members of his family, according to Al Jazeera. See also this report from the Washington Post.
August 9, 2024: (CNN) US releases $3.5 billion to Israel to spend on US weapons and military equipment.
See videos below of the twin babies who have died, and the Palestinians who continue to have their bodies shredded alive due to US funding of Israel for these weapons.
August 9 (9:45pm EST) August 10 (4:45pm Gaza time): Israel targets displaced people performing dawn prayer in a school shelter, killing more than 100. (Not yet reported by CNN or any American major news agency or newspaper.)
“A deadly Israeli attack on a school in Gaza has renewed calls for the United States to stop providing staunch support for Israel, including weapons transfers that rights advocates say are fueling atrocities in the Palestinian enclave.
“The Gaza Civil Defense agency said more than 100 Palestinians were killed and dozens more were injured on Saturday when Israel launched an attack on al-Tabin school in Gaza City.
“‘The US & allies are claiming a ceasefire is near. But all Palestinians see is more death, dislocation, & despair. The genocide continues,’ James Zogby, co-founder and president of the Arab American Institute, wrote on social media.
“‘It past time to end the charade. Israel doesn’t want peace or a ceasefire. Why are we still sending Israel weapons?’
“On Saturday morning, CNN journalist Allegra Goodwin said in a post on X that the US news network had confirmed a “US-made GBU-39 small diameter bomb” was used in the deadly Israeli attack on al-Tabin school. Al Jazeera could not immediately verify that report.”
Every Weekend This Happens, And The Days Inbetween
Every weekend, Israel has committed some kind of heinous massacre. At first it was shocking, disturbing, life could not go on as normal in the bouncy castle room with the kids on 9D as we passed a Saturday. Now that Israel’s actions have become the norm, the fight is directed toward VP Kamala Harris to step up into her power to stop this, and fight back against the weapons industry she professes to be passionate about, or step aside for Dr. Jill Stein and maybe Cori Bush to break the cycle.
You won’t see much of anything about orange Tea here. We deplore that flavor.
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After ALBB published about the most recent loss of life from the Newburgh/Beacon Bridge last week, of the young person who was identified as male who was 21 years old, several readers commented that the railing was too low. That sparked conversation offline. Therefore, this article will take a look at that railing, and why it needs to be raised. This article will show pictures of the railing, and will explore what it feels like to walk across the bridge to get to the railing, if that is indeed where people are jumping from. Because this person was not the first, and this is a problem.
Recognizing that even seeing pictures of the access path and railing may trigger emotions in people to either see for themselves for whatever reason, or if people who knew someone who did go over the railing, I (Katie) will contribute thoughts about how to get around and through hard feelings when they come.
As a jogger, I have run across this bridge several times, often wondering why the railing was so low, and feeling terrified to run across it, simply as a runner, walker or biker, since making one un-returnable choice is so easy to do from this bridge. Those crazy fantasies happen about what if one is flung over the railing, or what if one trips and somehow flips up and over the railing, even though tripping upwards is almost impossible. But, that is what the low height of this railing can do to people of mind who do not intend to jump.
Walking To The Bridge
We do not know how these people got to the spot on the bridge from which they jumped. Did they park on the right side of the bridge (if leaving Beacon), exit their car, and simply step off? Since there is no railing on the north (right) side of the bridge when leaving Beacon? Or did they walk down the path on the south (left) side of the bridge when leaving Beacon? If they came from the Newburgh side, this article does not look at that path.
For this article, I walked the left side to get to the middle, when coming from Beacon. Normally I jog here, but for this article, I parked my car at a friend’s house and walked. In this different head-space, I almost forgot how to get to the walking path that leads to the bridge. By the time I got to the I-84 overpass, I doubted myself as to where I was, since I was so near to the exit ramp. But sure enough, that is where the path is.
Cars whiz by very quickly, and the changing gears of the 18-wheeler trucks produce a large rumbling vibration sound, which has them low-pitched wailing as they get farther away. The current of the interstate traffic is pulsating. There is one sign for cars on the exit ramp: WRONG WAY. That if one were in the end-of-life state of mind, one may hope they would notice this sign and turn around. Next, there is a green sign that says “Life Is Worth Living,” which, if I were in the end-of-life frame of mind, I would want to punch for not understanding me, and carry on. There is one more of those signs later in the walking path. They seem totally useless.
And Now, We Get To The Railings On The Newburgh/Beacon Bridge
There are 2 levels of railings on the south side of the Newburgh/Beacon Bridge, or, the left side if you are leaving Beacon for Newburgh. The first is a set of bars, like a gate, that is taller than most humans. It starts at the beginning of the bridge, and continues over the tree tops, where the earth slants down to the MTA train tracks. The railing starts low, then goes a few feet higher.
The low railing before the taller railing once the ground ends to slope down. One begins to walk above the treetops, and the railing goes up.
The railing/Gate/bars at the beginning of the bridge on the Beacon side. The bars are taller than most humans
The treetops below the bridge on the Beacon side. Blocked by the taller bars.
After one walks over the tree tops, which is a wonderfully curious sensation, like you are flying, or are a drone, the high bars that were protecting you suddenly go lower. The bar of the gate lowers down to a railing that is the same height of many humans. Or, if you’re 5’8.5”, it is shorter than you. The railing has been lowered, presumably, to open up the view to cars to see clearly the mountains and river. As a walker, you can see all of this clearly, since the space between the bars is plenty wide.
Meanwhile, the metal walking path beneath you is shaking. The bridge moves a bit with all of the cars and trucks driving across it at full speed. Walking on the right side feels pretty normal, but walking on the left side next to the railing on the return back to Beacon, feels almost slanted. I didn’t bring my leveler and don’t have a leveler app, but that half of the metal walkway feels tilted. Could just be the sensation, though!
Coupled with a large gap between the end of the railing and the walkway. One feels like their leg might slip through it, and then one’s entire body might slip through and fall off the bridge. Which is of course impossible, but these crazy sensations pull at one’s body when walking that close to the railing. I can’t imagine how it feels for a person who came there with the intention to jump. Since there is this weird pulling sensation just by being there.
“But Katie, People Make The Decision To Die. That’s It. You Know That.”
I don’t know that. And this is not why New York State or Beacon or Newburgh of any of these Hudson Valley municipalities should be OK with this bridge being so accessbile by people who are making a decision that may be momentary, or accurate for a few months, or that they may regret. Unlike a drinking or an ice cream binge, that seems like the right idea at the time, there is no turning back from this. Unlike having sex with that first person seems like the right idea at the time, there is no turning back from smacking down onto the water that becomes like cement from that height if one wants to do that. They can’t undo smacking down on the Hudson River Water cement.
“But Katie, people make the decision to die. That’s it. You know that.” This was said to me by a good-intentioned person who wishes no one to die. This is where I want to talk about deciding to end one’s life. And how that is their decision. And those of us left in the living have to tell ourselves things in order to cope with the loss of them here. I’ve read the phrase “Don’t go, you will be missed,” and I understand that sentiment, but sometimes, if someone is in that state of mind, it’s not about other people. It’s about that person, and what that person feels like they can or can no longer contribute or tolerate in this lifetime.
Decisions Are Moments In Time
A friend once told me, when I was feeling down about what I thought was losing an emotion forever, they told me: “These are feelings for now. Things return.” I decided to believe my friend, even though I was convinced otherwise. Turns out, my friend was right. Years and years later, my friend remains right.
That friend has become my Day Of The Week Friend. We are very different people. We see straight on 95% of things. The other 5% is very, very different. But we appreciate each other as our Safe Space. Where we can tell each other deep emotions without fear of that friend reporting us, judging us, and if they do judge us, we know it is with good intent, and we know we can push back if we feel we need to.
Days of the week are important, because each day can mean different things. Making it through each day can be very hard. My friend started as my Saturday Friend. In my 20s (I am now 47 with 3 young children), I decided not to answer the phone from anyone in my family before 12noon. Too emotionally dangerous/slippery. But this friend, I can answer their call at any time in the morning. Except 5am. I am journaling then, and need the quiet. Unless they are in an emergency.
That friend expanded to Wednesday Friend. For no reason, really. I think they just wanted to check in again. Tuesdays became another day for us. Slurpy Tuesdays. Because Tuesdays can be very emotional, as they tend to have less structure than the Go Go Go energy of a Monday (as a small business owner, I love Monday’s, because I am the only one making it happen, so I got to make the money and be jazzed about it starting on Monday).
I say this because each day and moment are different. What may feel real and permanent in one moment, will not be real and permanent in another. Some things will. Like true love you feel. Or certain ideas you have. But other truths are set in different ways. The Past You may know some truths, and the Future You may know those truths differently, after reality is revealed along the way.
A Quick Guide To Days Of The Week
Not sure about you, but this is how I view the days of the week. Everyone is different in their life experience. I work for myself, so my work hours vary. I don’t commute to a job. My job as a writer and website producer is in my computer, which travels with me everywhere. I also produce client’s social media, so much of my job is in my iPhone.
Monday: Yay!! Monday is here again and I get to start this week again to make money. Money is a huge trigger for me. If I don’t have it - if I can’t buy the groceries my kids need, if I can’t take them to Olive Garden like they ask me, if I can’t pay for the Volleyball registration, I get very, very low. I know this is momentary, and I know what I need to do to get more money. Even though that usually involves emerging from a very scary place.
Tuesday: Slurpy Tuesday. Catch up from Monday, but dangerous because there is less structure here. I try not to answer any phone calls from family on Tuesdays. Especially at holiday time in November/December. This can send me into an emotional tailspin.
Wednesday: Ok, how you doing, Wednesday? This used to be a day that I taught a class. I’ve since abandoned that class, but need to bring it back. Great day for laundry catchup at night to stay ahead.
Thursday: Could be a high or a low day. Usually a high, as people begin opening up to get ready for the weekend. But if no structure, this day can slide to slurpy quickly.
Friday: Wow. It’s Friday. Did I complete everything? No I didn’t. Oh no. Usually am behind on Friday with deadlines. Clients tend to call on this day with website or creative emergencies. Usually my plans go out the window on Fridays. It’s also payday on Friday. If I don’t have the money to make payroll, this is obviously a very depressing day. Usually by Friday Night, I have moved through the Dimming of the Day, which is a peaceful time, but a longing time. I’m usually in a missing mood, and hope that I make it to Saturday.
Saturday: Saturday! Disconnected. Most people are not working or sending business emails. This day is reserved for creative things, bills catchup or bookkeeping. Or Kids Sports of those are in season. If it’s Kids Sports season, then this day is very choppy, difficult and usually exhausting. If a bath with Epson salt didn’t happen Friday night, then it should definitely happen Saturday night.
Sunday: Ugh. Sundays are for Main Street errands, the Farmer’s Market, and purging trash and house clutter. Kids Sports Things if those are in season. Preparing for Monday.
Visual Tricks To Get You Through Hard Moments
I have been going through a divorce for 2 years, and pondering it for years prior. I don’t know what it feels like to “come out” for one’s sexuality, but telling my friends and family that I was pursuing divorce was very difficult for me. I was hiding for a long time, and in my marriage, felt I had disappeared.
Low moments can often happen if one doesn’t feel heard or seen. This can often happen from people who are the most close to us blood-wise, family-wise. This is why people speak of their “chosen family.” Sometimes one must separate from their blood family in order to process and understand their own needs, and then lift themselves from restrictions being placed upon them in various ways. These restrictions can cause one to feel hopeless.
To get through these moments, to protect against the hopeless feeling, I do 2 things:
Remember that nothing lasts for ever. Good things or bad. I like to believe that the good things morph into the next version of that good thing. The bad or low moments will pass. Even though in that moment, they feel like forever, which is terrifying.
Turn myself into different characters or objects. Here’s what I mean:
Maleficent’s Wings: When I thought that “nesting” was a good idea at the end of my marriage (aka still living together in the same house for financial reasons but are divorced), to be temporary until I bought a different house, my ex-spouse was home more than expected. To survive this, I imagined that Maleficent’s large, black, thick, luscious wings were attached to my back and wrapped around me, shrouding me and protecting me from anything coming my way.
Alice Down A Rabbit Hole: When I’m pursuing an article like this one, I often feel like Alice in Wonderland, gathering pictures and information from places I never expected to be. Meeting new people and learning about their lives.
Cranking A Lawn Mower: During this divorce period, my usual mojo has been off. I can’t get into the groove to produce for my job the way I need to, or know that I can. I often feel like I am pulling on the lawn mower crank thing, and the motor is just not catching. I know it can start, but why. WHY. When it does start, I am very thankful, and I mow the whole lawn without turning it off.
Han Solo Flying The Millennium Falcon: When my motor starts again, I become like a jittery broken ship and a pilot at the same time. According to StarWars.com: “Millennium Falcon is a legend in smuggler circles and is coveted by many for being the fastest hunk of junk in the galaxy.” When I’m getting back on track, I feel like Han Solo in the pilot seat, working all of the levers and pressing all of the buttons, while some things are springing leaks. He fixes it as he goes, and knows he will be alright, but it’s a scary, yet exciting ride.
Batman and Robin: I don’t have a business partner, but I do, or did, have an employee here at A Little Beacon Blog. During the new time of blogging about Palestine, and how difficult that has been for this publication, thanks to people who are in denial, and to at least 1 stalker who has been walking into businesses demanding that they cut financial ties with my blog, and 1 stalker who takes the time to send a 6 pages letter to over 20 businesses, demanding the same, I had to go rogue. While my employee wanted to stay, I told her that I seem to be driving the plane into the ground, and for her own safety, I must eject her. Oddly, the day before I wrote her this text that I did not send, my body sent me to the hospital with an unexpected attack of Diverticulitis, that I realize know, has been brewing for at last one year. But with the stress of my divorce, these stalkers, and the denial of much of the world who are in power of the murders in Palestine, which bleeds into other genocides and hiding of police brutality and other things, my body couldn’t absorb any more. I may not have wanted to jump off a bridge, but my body sent me to the ER.
Butterfly/Person In Ocean: I have several ocean scenes I embody. On a productive, fast-moving day, I envision myself to be under the water, zipping around the ocean floor, collecting things in my arms. My body travels as fast as a bullet, and can twirl around horizontally while shooting forward. It’s like being a person and a butterfly at the same time.
Sinking To Bottom Of Ocean: I never felt this, but I imagined someone else feeling this way. I let go of them, and they fell slowly into the dark depths of the ocean. They could still breath and see me, but they were gone from me. They were on their own. It was a painful vision for me to have, but necessary for that person to make for themselves.
Treading Water In The Rough Ocean Waves: During my divorce, sometimes I felt like I was bobbing in the cold ocean water in the pitch black night, in angry and busy waves, but staying above water. I was next to a tall ship, where people close to me were in it and watching me, assuming I was fine. “Look how strong she is!” they said. But she/I was treading water as best I could, while cold salt water splashed into my mouth, choking me. The waves kept crashing over my head. I looked up at the people in the ship, and wondered why they thought I was OK and didn’t need help, or a life ring, or a life boat..
I have many more examples of characters or objects you can become. But you get the idea.
And don’t worry, Stalkers. I am exposing you in a few articles to come. You are so proud of your work, so you won’t mind the feature article.
Point Is:
The point is: don’t jump off the bridge. These are moments in time.
Even if someone thinks that jumping off the bridge is a good idea, New York State shouldn’t make it so easy to do. New York State removed the toll booths on the Newburgh/Beacon Bridge and cut those jobs in a few months time. They can raise the railing just as quickly.
We are always in traffic on that bridge. So I know we won’t mind the new construction.
Write To Our Elected Officials
Please write to your elected officials to get this railing raised. Dutchess County Executive: Sue Serino CountyExec@DutchessNY.gov Assembly Member Jonathan G. Jacobson: jacobsonj@nyassembly.gov
It may not seem like it with today's tornado-like stormy weather, but this Sunday is the Corn Festival from the Beacon Sloop Club at Pete and Toshi Riverfront Park! Don't miss this one. Last chance is the Pumpkin Festival in the fall, and it won't be this warm then. Enjoy the summer days while you can! Look for A Little Beacon Blog's tent, who is popping up to do face painting again!
As always, Free Palestine.
THE EVENTS + RETAIL THERAPY GUIDE
Beacon Sloop Club’s Corn Festival
Day: Sunday, August 11, 2024 Time: 12pm-5pm Location: Pete And Toshi Seeger Riverfront Park, 2 Red Flynn Drive, Beacon, NY
This is a fun, family friendly event along the shores of the Hudson River. Admission is free and all are welcome! Featured is fresh-picked, sweet Hudson Valley corn, boiled and served with your choice of butter and special toppings. In addition, treats such as chilled watermelon and ice cold fresh squeezed lemonade will be available to quench your thirst on this August day Information >
The River Pool Is Open! Days: Tuesday-Friday & Saturday-Sunday Times: Tuesday-Friday (12pm-4pm) & Saturday-Sunday (12pm-6pm) Location: Pete and Toshi Seeger Riverfront Park, in Beacon, NY
The River Pool is a rainbow-colored circular floating pool with a netted bottom securely installed in the Hudson River. Swimmers safely sit, float, and play in the River Pool to cool off while an on-duty lifeguard is present. Pool admission is FREE and no reservations are required. Information >
Story Screen Movies In The Park: Beetlejuice Days: Wednesday August 14, 2024 & Wednesday August 21, 2024 at Settlement Camp Theater Lawn
FYI! The Howland Public Library will be closed from 8/19-8/23 for painting
Cold Spring Farmer's Market Saturdays @ Boscobell from 8:30am - 2pm
Beacon Farmer's Market! Sundays from 10am-3pm at 223 Main Street
Beacon Flea Market! Every Fair Weather Sunday from 8am-2pm at Henry Street (behind the Post Office).
BAGEL-ISH
226 Main Street, Beacon, NY
Oh! You thought Bagelish only sold bagels and foccacia? Well, when you thought it couldn't get better than that, it can! With.... churros! Fresh made daily with dough that is always prepper prepped based on the humidity outside because believe it or not, that'll make it or break it. The bagels at Bagelish are all natural & gut-friendly sourdough bagels that are produced with a unique process using specially milled flour with no bleaching agents or bromides. When possible, Bagel-ish sources locally produced flour, butter, bacon, salmon, and coffee. Are you a local?! Locals get 10% off on Thursdays! Follow Bagelish on Instagram > Bagel-ish is a Sponsor, thank you!
HUDSON VALLEY FOOD HALL 288 Main Street, Beacon, NY Website >
It's hot! It's also easy to pop into the HV Food Hall, swing by Tara Fusion, and grab fresh watermelon to keep you cool! Follow HV Food Hall's foodies:
CARTERS RESTAURANT & LOUNGE 424 Main St.
Ahi Tuna Cauliflower Crust Pizza made with fresh Ahi Tuna, crisp Bacon, Wasabi Aoli, fresh Guacamole, Lettuce/Tomato and a delicious soy dipping sauce! Brb... must eat it! PS: Happy Hour is from Monday-Friday PPS: You can book the Carter's Restaurant space for a private party and enjoy delicious spreads made by the Carter's Crew! Book ahead. Follow Carter's on Instagram > Carters Restaurant & Lounge is a Sponsor, thank you!
BEACON BREAD COMPANY
193-195 Main Street, Beacon, NY
Your Challenge: should you choose to accept it: Get to Beacon Bread as early as possible any day of the week (8am), in order to grab a bakery treat you can’t find in the afternoon because they are sold out. Go on a Tuesday morning, and you may find this tiny olive oil tea cake topped with fresh raspberry preserve. Hope you enjoy! PS! OPEN MIC IS BACK! Every Tuesday weather permitting. In the back patio! PPS: BBC is open everyday 7 days/week! PPPS: Wholesale, special orders, and events/catering available. Follow BBC on Instagram > Beacon Bread Company is a Sponsor, thank you!
ZIATUN 244 Main Street, Beacon, NY
Did ya know that Ziatun offers catering?! YES. Your events could be filled with authentic Middle Eastern cuisine made with so much love, fresh ingredients, and so many options! You can also reserve their space for your private event. A win-win! Email them here if you're interested > Support your local Palestinian Restaurant PPS: Ziatun is open everyday.
Monday-Saturday: 11:00 AM - 9:00 PM
Sunday: 11:00 AM - 8:00 PM Follow Ziatun on Instagram > Ziatun is a Sponsor, thank you!
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Eggbert’s Free Range Farm @ Cold Spring Farmer's Market Saturday's Website > Instagram >
Eggs! Eggs for making delicious breakfast sandwiches with Eggberts bacon or sausage. Eggs for scrambling. Eggs for baking. Eggs for boiling. Eggs for dipping chicken strips into to make chicken tenders. Eggs, eggs, eggs! Eggberts has 'em! Freerange, of course.
$6/dozen FARMERS MARKETS: Wednesdays: Cornwall Farmer's Market 11am-5pm Saturdays: Cold Spring Farmer's Market 8:30am-1pm Sundays:Beacon Farmer's Market 8:30am - 2pm DELIVERY: 🚚 Delivering to Cold Spring, Cornwall, New Windsor, Newburgh, Beacon, Fishkill, and Wappingers Falls. Eggbert's Free Range Farm is a Sponsor, thank you!
BINNACLE BOOKS
321 Main Street, Beacon
Stop into Binnacle Books for all new and used books that you'll want to get your hands on. They move fast! Check out this book that just hit the shelves... A Fanatic Heart: Selected Stories of Edna O’Brien with a foreward by Philip Roth. First printing, FSG. PS have you heard about the Beacon Prison Books Project? See more here > Follow Binnacle on Instagram to keep up with their new reads and to get them right away! Learn More about Binnacle Books >
THE STATION
463 Main Street, Beacon
The Station is a local cannabis shop situated in a renovated police station in Beacon, NY. Stay tuned to what they will offer with their updates in the shop and for events/opening date by following The Station on Instagram. Follow The Station on Instagram > The Station is a Sponsor, thank you!
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Beacon Swim Academy - Learn To Swim
Days: August 6, 2024 - August 26, 2024 Time: Varies (see link below) Ages: Preschool, Ages 5-7 & Ages 8+
Beacon Recreation is excited to offer Dutchess County Residents free swim classes at the University Settlement Camp pool. All Classes are American Red Cross Learn to Swim Level I & Level II. Class size is very limited. Information >
Beacon Hoops
Summer Basketball League 2024
Developmental and Instructional Summer Youth Basketball League for youth ages 6 to 18. Information >
Summer Tennis Clinic 2024 Two Sessions: August 8/5 – 8/9 and August 8/12 – 8/16 Times: High School Clinic 8:30am to 10:30am & Junior clinic 10:30am to 12:30pm Location: BCSD Highschool Tennis Courts Information > Green Street Park Sprinkler Play Days: Tuesdays from 10am-12pm & Thursdays from 3:30pm-5:30pm
Thanks to the volunteers, aka WPCP ambassadors, Sprinkler Play is back! This year, they would love to offer two sprinkler sessions per week! One, on the earlier side, at 10 am on Tuesdays (thinking that little kids might be available at this time, and would love to splash without the bigger kids who may be in camp at this hour) and one in the post-camp hours on Thursdays. This does not mean little kids cannot attend the bigger kid time slot or vice versa! Just please always be mindful of others. Information >
Beacon's Lifeguard Certification Course Date: August 19 - August 23 Time: 9am - 1:30pm Location: University Settlement Camp Pool 5 Camp Loop Road, Beacon, NY 12508 Information >
Garden Time with Land to Learn Days: Every Wednesday Time: 10:30am-11:30am Location: Green Teen Garden at the Rec Center Information >
The Beacon Pool Open Swim Summer 2024 Days: July 1 – September 1 Times:
Monday - Friday: 1:15pm-3:15pm (Session 1)
Monday - Friday: 3:30pm-6pm (Session 2)
Saturday - Sunday: 11am-1pm (Session 1)
Saturday - Sunday: 1:15pm-3:15pm (Session 2)
Saturday - Sunday: 3:30pm-6pm (Session 3) Click here for ages, pricing, and more information >
PICKLEBALL!
Looking for players. All abilities welcome. Join to connect with others, organize games, search for courts, learn the game, find gear & more! Information >
Aqua Zumba At The Beacon Pool Days: Saturdays 8/10, 8/17, 8/24 Time: 9:45 am – 10:45 am Location: The Beacon Pool, Beacon, NY
Invigorating workout. Splashing, stretching, twisting, shouting, laughing, hooting, and hollering are often heard! Pre-registration required. $10 per class.
Seniors Chair Yoga
Stretch, move and strengthen your body! Gain physical awareness and balance! Reduce stress and have fun. Location: Beacon Recreation Center 25 West Center Street, Beacon, NY When: Mondays and Fridays Time: 9-9:45am Price: FREE
Dutchess County Office for the Aging Exercise Class
The Dutchess County Senior Exercise Program offers workout sessions for senior citizens in an effort to retain balance as well as bone density. Through strength training, seniors can shape their body and lose unwanted inches. Classes are conducted in a circle of 15-20 people using a chair for support and free weights. Location: Beacon Recreation Center 25 West Center Street, Beacon, NY When: Tuesday and Thursday Time: 10am
Pre-Registration is Required. Call 845-486-2555
Tai Chi and Qigong
Beginner and Advanced levels available. Gentle movements to cultivate your mind and body. Tai Chi and Qigong are easy vitalizing exercises you can learn to restore and maintain your health. You can practice them regardless of your age or health. The postures and movements are natural, balanced and simple. Location: Beacon Recreation Center 25 West Center Street, Beacon, NY Times:
Sunday Beginners 9-10:30am
Sunday Advanced 10-30-12pm
Thursday Push Hands 9-10:30am More Info >
Beacon has a growing number of beauty salons and professional pampering to take advantage of - you can even book a transforming appointment at a lash bar! Be it a totally new hair style, makeup lessons, or a facial, you have options in Beacon. Check out ALBB's Beauty Guide here >
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BEACON DENTAL
1020 Wolcott Avenue, Beacon, NY
(845) 838-3666
If you are looking for a more discreet orthodontic treatment, Invisalign clear aligners could be the right choice for you! This nearly invisible orthodontic treatment allows you to maintain a natural appearance while also straightening your teeth and smile. To learn more about Invisalign treatment, schedule a consultation with the one & only Beacon Dental! Explore all services > Beacon Dental is a Sponsor. Thank you!
KATIE JAMES, INC.
Stop worrying about what you're going to post on Instagram and when... Katie James, Inc. will go deep and get into the zone of your business month to month. Using our experience as one of the top local media outlets in the Hudson Valley, we can apply our gift of finding story ideas that people love, to your business. Your customers need to know what is going on in your creative business and/or inside of your storefront doors and we cannot wait to tell/show them with you! Reach Out to tell us about your goals!
TIN SHINGLE
Tin Shingle a training platform and community for businesses, artists and makers who are getting the word out about their business. Tin Shingle teaches PR, social media and content marketing tactics to regular people to help make their pitching and brand story telling smarter, engaging and more appropriate for the media to consider for article features. Tin Shingle produces weekly webinars called Training TuneUps, which offer free access to niche classes, as well as one-on-one training opportunities. PS! Believe it or not, it's time to start pitching for Christmas! Join our membership for all of the tools you need. Tin Shingle is a Sponsor. Thank you!
Got your running shoes on? We have a list of 5K races coming up for 2024!
Upcoming Race: 2024 MHRRC Dutchess County Classic
Day: Saturday September 14th, 2024 Time: 8:30am Location: Robinson Lane Park, 95 Robinson Lane, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590 Information >
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After eighteen years in Beacon, the establishment that is Homespun will bow out, putting the menus away for the last time on Sunday, August 18, 2024. Created by Jessica Reisman, Homespun was known for its cozy and eclectic atmosphere with aromas of daily soups lifting spirits each day it was open. Homespun opened a second location in Dia: Beacon. That café will remain open in Dia during museum hours.
Jessica put the business up for sale five years ago, which was purchased by Joe Robitaille, who moved his family up from Brooklyn to Beacon to attend and participate in Main Street and the Beacon City School District. Joe grew up in Hamburg, NY, just outside of Buffalo (he knows all about the blizzards and Bills football).
Upon opening under new ownership in January 2020, Joe, who was a sommelier (a wine professional) in New York City, had aspirations to introduce a deeply diverse wine and beer selection to the restaurant. As most restaurants do in Beacon, he tried to add dinner hours to the schedule, as well as seven days. Both are hard to sustain in Beacon, with the fluctuating tourist traffic and reluctant local market to dine out frequently for reasons of budget or pickiness.
Homespun owner Joe Robitaille, standing outside Homespun in his new Parklet during COVID 2020.
The COVID shutdown hit two months after Joe re-opened Homespun, where states across the country began shutting down most establishments. Homespun was able to open during the take-out phase, and offered wine and beer by the bottle. They also offered the parklet and had a garden out back for dining. Homespun was a sponsor of A Little Beacon Blog through that trying time, as well as through the Black Lives Matter movement that marched through Beacon.
In his announcement email to customers, Joe expressed: “To all of our staff throughout the years, thank you. I am so proud of this team for having pushed through arguably the most difficult stretch that restaurants in this country have known. You all made this place, each and every day.”
The wine selection at Homespun.
Homespun’s investment into the wine direction paid off. Not only did Joe introduce a carefully curated collection of wine through relationships he had from his restaurant days in New York City, he also trained Heather Barr as Assistant Sommelier, who was his first hire. She then advanced to Sommelier/Manager of both locations (Homespun & Dia). Heather was awarded Best Sommelier by readers in Hudson Valley Magazine for 2023 and 2024.
“Creating a diverse wine program with Joe was an absolute pleasure,” Heather told A Little Beacon Blog. “I'm thankful for his mentorship and enjoyed supporting Joe’s vision. Working with a list that focused on both traditional styles and more esoteric-up and coming styles has been a joy sharing with our guests and I hope to continue doing this in my next role.”
For the past year at least, Homespun has been for sale. The team found potential fits of those who wanted to invest in the little restaurant, but none that finalized. Joe announced that new owners will be taking over the space, but not the brand. “In the coming months, a new business will open here in this space, and we are excited for them and wish them the best of luck. May the community rally around them like you did for us.”
Said Heather to A Little Beacon Blog in her final days at the eatery: “I'm proud of the resilience we've shown in these years, and I'm grateful to have worked with such an amazing team that showed up each day with a passion to put out good, consistent food and create a welcoming atmosphere for all. While I'm sad our time at Homespun is coming to an end, I will cherish our time here and look back fondly on having the space to grow as an individual, support our team on their own journeys, and welcome the community into this space. This won't be the last you all see of me and I want to say thank you to everyone I've built connections with during my time here :)”
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